Ester Oldfield

You've gotten good at looking like you're fine.

Not everyone needs to know that. If you're here, maybe you do.

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is this you?

A few things people may recognise before they reach out.

Other people lean on you. You always show up. Never let people down. 
Other people lean on you. You're not always sure you do.
You've already done some of the work.
Read the books, maybe therapy before. Still doing the thing you swore you'd stop.
You have some awareness of why you do things. Why you say yes, why you react as you do
Knowing hasn't made it any easier to change or stop it.
Something isn't working.
You just don't have the words for what it is yet.
You thought life would look or feel different by now.
Whatever the marker was, you're not there yet.
Somewhere along the way, you stopped expecting things to work out.
Not dramatically. Just quietly, over time.
about me

I'm Ester. I work with the whole of you, not just the part that talks.

Psychotherapist and yoga teacher

I'm Ester, a psychotherapist and yoga teacher based between Hong Kong and Bali, with a deep belief that the body and mind are not separate, but a whole self to be understood.

I'm a British-raised adoptee with Italian heritage, and have called Asia home for over a decade. Hong Kong was my base for almost ten years, mostly spent teaching yoga, before I began studying as a counsellor, and now work actively between Hong Kong and Bali.

Teaching trained me to notice the quiet details in others and myself: the way breath shifts, how someone carries themselves, the small physical cues that say more than words. That way of observing naturally came with me into the therapy room. Alongside my own life experience — my adoption story, moving abroad, changing careers, losses — this curiosity is what led me to my Master's in Counselling Psychology, which I hold alongside 450+ client hours of practice.

Alongside psychotherapy, I've been teaching yoga across Asia for over ten years, from 100+ student classes in Hong Kong to international retreats in Bali and beyond. With 900+ hours of training behind me, my teaching has always been about more than movement. It's about helping people feel like they belong and feel at home in themselves.

In sessions, we work with ACT, IFS parts work, and somatic practices. We get curious about the part of you that holds a pattern, where it lives in your body, and what it needs in order to loosen its grip.

Aligned Being is the thread that runs through everything I do. Wherever you are in your journey, there is space for you here.

Qualifications
BSc (Hons) Psychology
MA Counselling Psychology
ACT Depression & Anxiety Disorders with Russell Harris
Integrative Somatic Parts Certificate
450+ Supervised Clinical Hours
approaches

Not one theory. A method.

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Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)
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IFS (Internal Family Systems) Somatic Parts Work
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Mindfulness-based therapy
specialisms

Common ground clients bring

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relationship patterns that repeat
Symbol indicating anxiety and stress
belonging, identity, adoption
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anxiety and stress
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feeling stuck despite doing the work
ways to work together

Some people come for one session.
Some want a defined container.
Some want ongoing support.

There isn't one right way to start. If you're not sure which is right for you, that's a normal place to begin from, we can figure it out on a connection call.

single session

The Opening

Standard session rate

One session, no commitment. A space for you to share what's going on, to hear it, discover it. The opening is is much for you as it is me, to get to know you and who shows up.

One 50 minute session
No package or commitment
Good if you're not sure where to start
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most people start here · 10 sessions

Between and Becoming

Payment plan available

A defined period, not a quick fix and not open ended. Three phases: Land, Look, Loosen. We will work with the part of you that holds a pattern, not just the story of where it came from, and then, what to do about it.

10 sessions across 3 phases
Valid for 6 months
24 hour cancellation policy
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ongoing · 6 months

Long-term support

Price to be confirmed

For longer-standing patterns, or for continuing the work after Between and Becoming. Open ended depth work, beyond the fixed three-phase arc.

Weekly sessions over 6 months
A structure paced by you
Good after completing Between and Becoming
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more about the opening

One session.
The discovery.
Standard session rate. Book directly through the link below.


Maybe you're not sure if therapy is right for you, or how it feels to talk to a stranger. Maybe you've tried before and it wasn't a good fit. Maybe you don't want to commit before knowing if we align. The Opening is a single session for this. It's a space to bring yourself in any part, share with me what feels right to, and observing how it feels. For us both, it is important that you feel comfortable, at ease, and most importantly, aligned.  If it feels like something worth continuing, we can talk about what that could look like. If not, that's more than okay too.

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inside between and becoming

Ten sessions.
Three phases.
No promises about where you'll land.
HKD 12,000. Payment plan available. Valid for 5 months. 24 hour cancellation policy.

You may have already been to therapy, or done enough reading, journalling and reflecting that you can tell me your patterns in one sentence. But, you're still doing the exact same thing. This isn't about more gaining more insight. It's about getting to know the part of you that keeps the pattern alive, and where that is showing up in the body that's been holding it the whole time.

Land — sessions 1 to 3

Before we talk about where anything comes from, we start with the here and now. The you that arrived at the session, and what's actually happening in your body, mind and life right now. Settling, landing and connecting to yourself comes first.

Look — sessions 4 to 7

Once there's some ground under you, and you're feeling steady, we can get curious about the parts of you holding the pattern. Not why you go quiet, or say yes when you mean no, but what's the purpose of  it. Is it protective, avoidant, hopeful, and for what? 

Loosen — sessions 8 to 10

This isn't about trying harder or finding more internal battles to overcome. It's about what happens next. When you can let go of a part and move towards some changes. Not forced changes, but desired, aligned and lead by your true self moving towards the life you want. 

Land is also where we find out if this is the right fit for you. If it isn't, I'll help you find someone who is. I won't promise you an outcome, and I won't rush you towards anything. What I offer is an honest and safe space for you to get to know yourself in any capacity

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what to expect

What happens after you book a call

01

A free 15 minute call

We talk through what's going on and figure out which way of working makes sense, together.

02

A first session, no pressure

The first session is also where we find out if this is the right fit. If it isn't, I'll help you find someone who is.

03

We go at your pace

No promises about outcomes, no rushing toward one. Just an honest look at what's actually going on.

Sessions are available online only (in person across Hong Kong at points throughout the year).

faqs

Before you reach out

I've already tried therapy before. Why would this be different?

Therapy with me doesn't stop at understanding why. We can go deeper through the why, what keeps things alive, and where in the body is holding it, not just the story of where it started.

I'm not sure which option is right for me.

That's completely normal to be unsure, it is a big commitment. We can chat about it on the free intro call, no need to decide now.

Do you offer online sessions?

Yes, sessions run online or in person across Hong Kong at points throughout the year.

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get in touch

If you have questions, or you're ready to start

If you have any questions or would like to find out more, please don't hesitate to get in touch via email. Or, book your free 15-minute introductory call below.

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